clemenC
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Whenever I consider the option to just go out and date (whilst being involved with my current partner, who has another partner) I keep anticipating a terrible experience.
I'm really hoping females (male input is appreciated but for obvious reasons, I'm hoping for female perspective) as to what is it like?
In my mind I think, if I go out there as a polyamorous woman, 3/4 of the men are going to be just looking for casual sex. I am one of those SLOW people. I can't do it before I'm comfortable and I've never been comfortable in less than 3 months (aside from the current mental connection with my current partner).
This is just gonna suck ....
So please, if you are comfortable, please share any experiences (advice and/or tips) as to how a female puts herself out there in the poly scene.
* not that I want to do this, but in the event I end up veering in that direction .. I'm in need of more information on what I'll be walking into ...
THANK YOU in Advance!!!
I'm really hoping females (male input is appreciated but for obvious reasons, I'm hoping for female perspective) as to what is it like?
In my mind I think, if I go out there as a polyamorous woman, 3/4 of the men are going to be just looking for casual sex. I am one of those SLOW people. I can't do it before I'm comfortable and I've never been comfortable in less than 3 months (aside from the current mental connection with my current partner).
This is just gonna suck ....
So please, if you are comfortable, please share any experiences (advice and/or tips) as to how a female puts herself out there in the poly scene.
* not that I want to do this, but in the event I end up veering in that direction .. I'm in need of more information on what I'll be walking into ...
THANK YOU in Advance!!!