Things you find sexy or make you feel loved

I thought this would be a fun thread---
I decided to start this thread because husband did something he doesn't like to do-- but he knows it's important to me. It starts my day off right. First item below--

-- A clean kitchen sink in the morning
-- Fresh bedsheets
-- A fresh clean body-- biggest turn-on ever for me
-- thoughtful little surprises
-- asking what I think about something

Funny story-- when I met my husband and started dating him and staying over at his house, I noticed he had upgraded the TP in his bathroom to the kind used in my home. I commented on it and said thanks, I noticed. He said, "well you deserve the best!" He said the fancy stuff was too fancy for him but it was there for when I came over. Then the next time I came over he had a huge stack of the fancy toilet paper on top of the toilet tank. I said, "Wow that's a lot of TP! Considering I only come over here twice a week, that's going to take a long time to use up!" and he said, "I plan on knowing you for a long time."
 
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Hi RosesAreRainbow,

I believe my love language is Words of Affirmation. I can process criticism but it takes a long time and is painful. It means a lot to me when someone speaks encouraging words to me. So Words of Affirmation are what make me feel loved.

Regards,
Kevin T.
 
I love being touched.
Holding hands, rubbing my back, hand on knee or thigh, hugs, forehead kisses, any and all of this while having a serious discussion is relaxing and soothing. Doing it in general may or may not turn me on, but it does make me feel loved and is the easiest way to initiate cuddles <3
 
I'm an "acts of service" girl and MrS is a "giving gifts" sort of guy - but I am NOT a "giving/receiving gifts" gal. Lucky for me MrS has learned to "gift" me with services and I "service" (i.e. pay for) gifts he chooses for himself. Win-win
 
I love being touched.
Holding hands, rubbing my back, hand on knee or thigh, hugs, forehead kisses, any and all of this while having a serious discussion is relaxing and soothing. Doing it in general may or may not turn me on, but it does make me feel loved and is the easiest way to initiate cuddles <3
Mmmmmm, cuddles...:giggle: Touching can be translated into his "gifts" and my "services" too! - I can reach over and rub his neck while he is driving = love. I squee when having my hair brushed or the scalp massager used when I am sitting at my desk at home. Similarly, quality time is a "gift" of attention or "serving" as a sounding board.

Maybe I should hang out a shingle "Love Language Translation Services"...:love:
 
For me, it's all about touch. A hand brushing across my back or fingernails gently scratching my skin will turn me into a puddle.
 
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