mhjb2801
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So about 2 months ago i met a someone... things were going great this was their 1st poly involvement and things went really good for a couple of weeks but i knew he was having issues with the whole she's married but dating thing. I gave him some space to work things out, fast forward 3 weeks of hearing nothing to us getting ready to go out again as he says he's worked thru his feeling and issues. Well the day we were suppose to go out we were texting back and forth to each other. About 2 hours before our date i get a text that his girlfriend(who wasn't there 3 weeks before and this is the 1st I've heard of her) found them and is pissed. He then states he's talked to her about getting into poly but she isn't into it.
Now here's the issue I have, I don't care that there is a girlfriend. In fact I welcome it and am for it but I'm not for him being dishonest with me that there was a girlfriend and still willing to go thru with a date with me knowing she isn't okay with Poly. He's still wanting to be with me and is trying to work out things with her. I'm not sure if I like this idea because in many ways it makes me feel like a cheater in the fact she's so far been not cool with everything.
Should I just write this off or give it a try still?
Now here's the issue I have, I don't care that there is a girlfriend. In fact I welcome it and am for it but I'm not for him being dishonest with me that there was a girlfriend and still willing to go thru with a date with me knowing she isn't okay with Poly. He's still wanting to be with me and is trying to work out things with her. I'm not sure if I like this idea because in many ways it makes me feel like a cheater in the fact she's so far been not cool with everything.
Should I just write this off or give it a try still?