Evie answered this perhaps differently than you expected (and I could give a similar answer). But did you mean, "Has anyone fallen in love with someone of a GENDER they weren't previously attracted to?"Maybe someone can shed a little light on something that is always in the back of my mind. My wife had never expressed any interest or attraction to the opposite sex. I imagine it was the emotional closeness that she developed with her friend that made her start to think, "What if?" and begin to entertain the idea of a sexual relationship. I asked her about it, and she said it's not so much that she is interested in women, it's that she's interested in Pumpkin. Cookie says she is surprised by how comfortable she is with lesbian sex and how much she enjoys it. It was certainly a shock to me.
I'm not sure what my question is, other than has anyone else realized a change in their feelings/preferences later in life? Has anyone else found themselves falling in love with someone they didn't expect to? What was that like?