I was going to post this in answer to the poly decision/nature thread but as that one already went slightly off topic I figured I'd start a new thread.
...But this also leads to the question of "What is romance/romantic?"
My husband is self-admittedly horribly non-romantic. He will have little bursts of romantic attempts, which I love, but I wish they would come a little more frequently. lol But he doesn't know what or how to be romantic he says. So, what is romance and romantic and how does one learn or become romantic?