Recent content by 1234Iwantmore

Thanks.

We discussed it. I asked. She said it would not be fair. That she finally has power, able to make choice for herself and likes it. Wants to continue and choose when to quit. That I’ve had mine for years, and I pushed her to do this. While she never wanted to be with another man in the first...

I may want to prove that, but it’s also a double standard. I have mine and it’s not fair to withhold her from similar experiences. I sometimes want to quit, but that’s on me. She’s catching up. I certainly can’t ask her to stop and I don’t.

Thank you. My cheating happened years ago. She says she’s over it. Loves me and has options to leave if she wanted to. I can believe that. But that she loves me, our child and has no desire to leave. She found something she likes. This time, it’s a guy. I’m just being insecure. And I also...

Well crap, my answers are in the quote.

Thank you. Great advice.

Okay. Not sure where else to ask. No, I’m in hopes she doesn’t fall in love with another man, I just want to cope better with her having fun. I’ve just been bad in our marriage at times, and I’m waiting for that moment she gets me back and fear when it gets too involved it will be a “well...

I’m afraid she will get wrapped up in something. He single, may want a relationship. She may end up liking the attention. I’m not treated badly at all or lacking any needs. But anything she does whether it’s falling for or just not telling me...she says “well you did it”. So I fear the hammer...

She always wanted women to play with. But I pushed a man on her. Now another. Now she wants this man. I’m afraid she will be suckered in. I’m afraid she will get close, and will be tough to break off or does indeed leave, which I deserve it. I’m afraid if I say I can’t handle it, then it’s a...

Why am I being a dick? Okay, long story short. I’ve been married 18 years. I’ve not been great. I’ve always been in to open relationship. I’ve cheated... My wife has stayed with me. Twice now. She truly believes I just like sex, and that I’m not really interested in another relationship. All...