Hi all! New here and seeking wisdom and new perspective. My wife and I have been together for 5 years (2 years married). When we met I knew she was poly but I didn't really know how big this was till recently. She said to me "I was going to have 'the talk' with you, but I don't want to"... I had no idea what she meant, but she told me she was going to tell me that she wanted to be in an open relationship.