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Thumbs up I Appreciate the encouragement and share. I got a whole lot out of davidlnoble's long and detailed, highly insightful article on unicorn hunters and I have to ask myself whethert hat is who I want to be or whether this is just the ideal, if everyone around we're accepting of a...

Long but important read Davidlnoble.com on Unicorn hunters and the Unicorn. I learnt a lot about what not to do. It might be better to look for a Z relationship than a triad, since it seems to me that whenever anyone comes in to a well established relationship from the outside it is a position...

Oh. And the thread rating is by whom? It is awesome to know that as a newcomer it can only get better from one star...

Thanks Kevin for the encouragement. It is rarely without fear that I am beginning something, but that is the point, isn't it. Discard the fear, or be aware of it, work with it and find the courage to be honest. If nothing else I will learn form this experience and yes no matter what it is I...

Thanks! It is good to be in company who understand.

We are in a good relationship for six years plus. I am 47, male, professional and goofy, in my third marriage, having grown up some along the way, sober x 6 years with 2 kids from a previous marriage and a wife who is 30, professional, very sharp, unselfish and married for the first time, with a...

Hi! First post. Thank you for sharing, all of you. I am in a position of having a wife who is more bi than we thought at the beginning of our six plus years of a good relationship. I had stuffed myself into monogamy because that was the right thing to do and I do not cheat. Now. She is looking...