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    abcrazy replied to the thread Privacy in a relationship.
    It is sad in the moment but there are great times more than there are bad yes I treat myself as a doormat sometimes maybe all the time...
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    abcrazy replied to the thread Privacy in a relationship.
    Ues I do hurt my self that way but I would rather me hurt than her hurt.. More likely the second i feel like I don't have a right to...
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    abcrazy replied to the thread Privacy in a relationship.
    We agreed to one us datenight a month and I didn't communicate that I thought date night meant all night which is my fault. So to answer...
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    abcrazy replied to the thread Privacy in a relationship.
    I don't know when the dates over but I had planned it as we come home get comfy cozy up and have an intimate time.
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    abcrazy replied to the thread Privacy in a relationship.
    Wife thinks it's too much to ask. I think similarly about their anniversary I don't intend on interrupting what I consider their day. I...
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    abcrazy replied to the thread Privacy in a relationship.
    Well for context. We take our anniversary off every year and spend the day together. This year is the first time she's had a partner on...
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    abcrazy replied to the thread Hiding lover.
    O do and I'm not sure if she does
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    So do you all share everything about you partners with the other if they want to know or do you keep everything separate. My wife is...
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    abcrazy replied to the thread im bad at poly.
    I don't think anyone else deserves the pain and stress but maybe I have earned it, and we don't fight , argue in front of the kiddo we...
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    abcrazy replied to the thread im bad at poly.
    I'm definitely leaving out my bad parts i don't go to therapy and haven't tried since I got my ptsd under control. And yea I hold it in...
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    I'd second this. We experienced polyamorists tend to make a distinction between infatuation/new relationship energy, and long term love...
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    abcrazy replied to the thread im bad at poly.
    It has and is very possible what would you recommend abandon the woman I love and run out of fear she wants out or double down on trying...
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    abcrazy replied to the thread im bad at poly.
    Thank you I will take your advice to heart. I can't promise ill follow it to the letter but i will definitely take a step back and try...
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    abcrazy replied to the thread im bad at poly.
    That meme is perfect Thank you for that. And I appreciate the life vest.
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    ok i know my spelling is atrocious and my grammar is worse but i had to clear my chest my wife and i have been together for over ten...
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