Recent content by Abebi

Unfortunately, we can't change who we are or how we feel. Even as a poly person, I feel jealous sometimes. And I have to work on it. I have to dig down and find the reason for my jealousy, and talk it out with both my poly partner and my mono partner. But if the situation makes you so unhappy...

I went through a "wild" phase after J left that resulted in my beautiful baby boy. The father didn't want anything to do with either of us and I was happier that way. (And we were both much better off.) Either F or J would likely be a bit jealous for a while if I knowingly conceived with...

Loving the child is not the reason they would want to know the paternity. J would want to know if a child was his because he doesn't yet know if he can have children. :/ Love has never been an issue in my mind. They both love my son and treat him as their own.

The J's are one and the same. We had a three year period where we didn't really talk and went about our divorce process. After that time, he came back and we started dating again. Right now, F and I share an apartment. We raise my son (now two) together and see F's children a few times a...

First a little history: F and I have been dating for two years. J and I were married for 3 years before divorcing and going our separate ways. F agreed to polyamory "to make me happy", which is a horrible reason, but then grew to enjoy it a bit once he met someone else (Bartender). We still...