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Those are all great questions. I found the quote when I was searching for "long term relationship energy" related writing. I have found this quote in several places, but without any context around it. I couldn't find much about the author either. It didn't make sense to me either as a...

So, I was hoping someone, anyone, might have insight into this quote, since we regularly talk about "new relationship energy", and this is about "long-term relationships". Anyone?

I was doing some internet reading about long term relationships, specifically geared towards 'long-term relationship energy', and I came across this quote. I would love to hear from others what you interpret it to mean. "In terms of the formation of long-term relationships, it's far better to...

Because he said he is completely monogamous, so it is fair to presume that if he is interested in dating her, he is either a) not serious about being monogamous? or b) wants her to split up from her quad.

I am struggling with a similar situation right now. It is extremely hard to see someone you love, with whom you share an established relationship, caught in the throes of ecstasy of NRE with someone else. My sex life with my primary has changed significantly - things she used to enjoy doing in...

You say he is "supportive" of your quad, but he is firmly monogamous and still talks about exploring a relationship with you? That sure doesn't sound supportive of your quad to me. To me it sounds like you are crushing hard on this guy because he is suddenly emotionally available and probably...