Recent content by accidentaltriad

Hi :) I'm a 29 F from Central CT, the F addition to a MF couple (31 and 25, respectively.) Our polyfidelitous triad has been going for about six months now, but I have known them as a couple for going on 6 years, and actually met and dated him first many moons ago. :) We all sort of fell into...

Wondering if anyone's got any poly valentines I can pass on via text to my partners today, since we won't be seeing each other until much later on in the evening. Google has been generally useless for such things.

Thank you all so much for your insights. I have read all of your responses and they've given me many ways to rethink my situation in positive terms and break the mold, so to speak. I am really thankful to have found this community! Many thanks to you all.

That's just it. They don't even seem to CARE about getting married other than it's expected of them in some stupid implied timeline that has their families and friends wondering why the hell they aren't even engaged yet. Also, and this is a whole 'nother subject, really - their families don't...

It is. Which is why I struggle with feeling like an idiot for even having this be an issue. I'm not legitimately ready for a child. None of us are, actually. It's just one of those things digging at me in the back of my brain. He and I have talked about it more than she and I have, and he of...

[NOTE: I posted this in the "Life stories and blogs" subforum, but I'm thinking it probably belongs here instead. I can't find the delete button on the original. Sorry for the double post.] Seeking insight from those who may have experienced a similar situation. I'm part of a MFF triad, and...