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    Opening my marriage to poly relationships

    Re: poly relationship My wife met her boyfriend at a meditation retreat. We are married 13 years and I supported my wife in her poly lifestyle. We were lucky to find in the boyfriend a mature, polite, well educated gentlemen who not only respects my wife but is respectful to me as well. He is...
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    New to poly

    re: new to poly One little tip I can give is that you engage in non-sexual activities as well depending on your interests towards strengthening the friendships and relationship. I can think of taking day and over night trips to visit places, exploring your hobbies, pursuing continuing education...
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    Pep talk for husband:1st time with wife & boyfriend

    Thanks Graviton Thanks for your advice Graviton. I will just plan a normal weekend where we go on a day trip and do other activities such as outdoor lunch or something and give my wife and boyfriend exclusive privacy when they want it. Regards
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    Pep talk for husband:1st time with wife & boyfriend

    In this weekend I will be joining my wife and her boyfriend in the bed room for the 1st time. I am a mono and so is my wife's boyfriend. My wife is poly with one boyfriend. I am excited as well as anxious. I admit I am a bit submissive and my wife's boyfriend is a respectful take charge type. I...
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    Dealing with sharing

    Sorry to know you are depressed. My wife has also turned poly after 13 years of marriage. Her boyfriend is a mature gentleman. My advice for how to cope with how you feel: Accept your husband and his poly choice; Maintain your self esteem by taking care of yourself like good workouts...
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    Feelings of mono husband with a poly wife

    I am a 48 year old married male and I am a mono. After 13 years of our marriage, my wife is now a poly and has taken a mature gentleman as her boyfriend. I supported her decision. The boyfriend is mono too. This is something new to me as well as to my wife. I feel confused about one thing: I...
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    Advice on supporting wife in a new poly lifestyle

    After 13 years of marriage my 46 year old wife has taken a mature gentleman as a boyfriend. I am mono and have supported her in her decision. I can feel the new zest in her and she is more loving toward me. It has been a few months only and I am new at this. I agree her boyfriend is the...
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    Email only friendship

    Seeking email only friendship with others in poly lifestyle. I am a married male age 48 years with a wife who is 46 years. I am mono and she has a boyfriend, a polite well mannered mature gentleman in the age group of 55 to 60. They have been dating for a few months now. I have a submissive...
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    Monogamy-Polymory couple

    I am a 48 year old Indian male with a 46 year old Indian wife. I am into monogamy and my wife has a mature gentleman as a boyfriend as well. I accept her polyamory lifestyle. We are married for over 13 years now. Here is how we took this decision: We had an arranged marriage. I was a virgin...
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