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Thank you Magdyln, You and everyone have been great at helping me piece this together. Fortunately I have some friends that can help me out on this in the real world. So long as I am open and honest then being with anyone is a possibility while using communication and being authentic. The...

Thank you Openbook23, The reviews said the same thing about Opening Up. I know what I would like and what could work but it's just not likely. Every time I embark on this journey I hit the same wall. Being patient, having no expectations, and meeting interesting people is really all there is.

Thank you Magdlyn, this is very helpful and I understand your reservations about relationships with couples. So if I understand all of this, I can be with a woman in a relationship and I can be with another relationship with another woman so long as everyone knows they are not my only partner...

Hi GalaGirl, Thanks for the response! I know about not having to date the couple, I've met some polyamorous people throughout the years. Just being open to it and meeting people is about all I can do. I can intellectualize it all I want but you gave me a clue about the essence of it. Thank you!

Thanks Kevin, I really appreciate your help and guidance.

Thanks Magdlyn, I will keep that in mind. I am not preoccupied with the sex component, I just wanted to address it and get it out of the way. I actually spend most of my time figuring out how I would fit into a situation and what that actually means. Thank you for clarifying if I would be a type...

Being divorced has left me with a lot of time to reflect. On a lonely walk I was musing to myself and reminiscing about some of the couples I met while swinging. I also remembered how often I would be a third wheel to friends who were a couple. Having always liked the idea of being polyamorous I...