Recent content by AhniDisTrouble

I want to be able to articulate my needs better because I don't think he understands where I am coming from. He always says that if we were to have a girlfriend there would be an hierarchy, because he will always have me on the highest standard to anyone that comes into our relationship. Which I...

We are definently in couples counseling too and he is getting a lot of his chest. I'm still very much in love and sexually attracted to my husband. He is my person. He doesn't want strictly monogamous relationship because he knows that I will leave despite how much I love him. So he is ok with...

Yes to all of it. I always had a huge problem expressing myself correctly. Although I haven't cheated physically, I have had communication with other men in an inappropriate manner (that Husband was not pleased with). My addiction was out of hand at that time and me going to group and therapy...

Thank you for your response! I really appreciate your thoughts on this

@Magdlyn thank you for your feedback. I am definently struggling getting my point across and I have not cheated physically but I have thought about it a lot. Hopefully I can't find a way to come across clearly but be sensitive to how he feels about everything.

Hey y'all! My name is Ahni. I've been poly most of my life. I'm looking to make connections with people that I feel like I can relate to. I am married to an amazing man, but he is not poly at all. I do also have an addiction to sex. I have it under control at this time, but it has put a strain...