Recent content by Airto33

Not by her, but maybe by the idea of the guy that she decided to see. I don't know! I was venting last night. Nice to have you all chime in :)

She isn't looking to have a long term 3rd partner, but to have someone else on the side for a certain period of time. Problem is, this is the 2nd time she has gravitated towards someone where I have a weird competitive thing with, that I knew before her, that I have worked for in the past, etc...

] Neither. I was using the analogy to describe the strength I feel I need to have in order to be ok with her seeing other men. How long have you been at this? Have you ever been in a situation where your wife wanted to be with someone that you knew first, or that you felt some sort of...

I know what she needs, and why she needs it. I understand her feelings, and I acknowledge that I don't have the same ones. I know she has undying love for me, and wants to spend the rest of our lives together. I know she will only be with other guys from time to time that respect her, make her...