Recent content by alaskababe

White Flags!! Just read the part from Loving Radiance about hating your exes. So true. I am still friends with my first boyfriend and husband and several lovers from my past. I never let go of the men who meant a lot to me. They don't seem to want to let go of me either. That is a big WHITE...

Red Flags A red flag to me is someone who can't talk about their feelings honestly. No matter what the subject is, they should be able to talk about how they feel, even if you disagree with each other. Sometimes you will never agree, but at least you can have a discussion about a touchy subject...

Hidden in Plain Sight We are not open to anyone in our area due to our jobs and family. Our adult sons know about our friends and accept it. Our teenager knows we have friends, but not the sexual side of the friendship. Our older sons put it together on their own at a certain age and we did not...

Feeling like less Sometimes, someone who loves you wonders why he was so lucky to have found you and are afraid of losing you that they feel less than other men. It does have to do with your life experience. How our lives have been lived determines who we are today and how we feel about...

Different Loves for Different Needs I think that says it all. You can not have all your needs met by one person. Whether it's your friends or lovers. My husband is my rock and always in my corner for family and work issues. My boyfriend is also my rock but has different perspective and outlook...

Hi I have always been poly, but didnt know it had a name. I have been married to my wonderful husband for 30 years and we started mono but became poly after I wanted to reconnect with an old boyfriend. We have all been neighbors and friends for all these years without any major problems. As I...