Recent content by Alba

In my observation, replies are based on experiences. My ex-husband was involved with more than one woman when I was married to him. I grew up in a polyamorous family. Although that was not the marriage I wanted I accepted. I was monogamous but I tries to be friendly with those women. But they...

It is really great if you can come out to your closest family. It makes life easier and happier. You can share all those small happy moments with them. No more hush hush. :) I'm glad they all got along. :)

The Corrs - Breathless

This is an important issue. It can happen. I agree with Kevin. It is a matter of personal preference. If all the parties involved are on the same page everything will be smoother. Issues like finance, time, other responsibilities etc. can be dealt easily. But what if they are not on the same...

WOW ! That's great. I see you are filled with happy happy joy joy ! :) I wish you more happiness. :)

You are a mother. These are part of the package. I hope he won't think these... "too much reality".

Hello OttawaGuy, Welcome! :) Something similar happened to me. I was mono at the time and my husband had girlfriends/affairs. Although I was allowed to date I didn't. I had terrible self-image issue at the time. I wasn't asking for sex but I did talked to him about intimacy. But he was...

:) Have a nice time. It is wonderful to have a nice supporting husband.

I was thinking the same. A human child requires time, money and energy. For next few years anything else should be secondary concern.

I'm not a parent but I'll be soon. :) My answers are based on my experiences as a child. Discussions. Have lots of discussions. Let them find their places in this world. Bring age appropriate topics. For example, WWII. Asked them about their opinions, the reasons behind their opinions, the...

Yes, my background is different than the most. It was a tough life but a simpler one. Weak & pale ? May be today people like to live like that. Recently I'm having discussions with my parents about polyamory. They told me they cared about their relationship above all. They made sacrifices to...

Be brave and take a step forward. We all make mistakes and that's how we learn. Don't stop learning ever but never over analyze. Dr. Albert Einstein once said something like, if you analyze too much then Beethoven's music will be nothing more than vibration of air. You'll miss the joy of music...

One of my favorite movies. :) (Love Actually) Billy Mack - Christmas Is All Around Wet Wet Wet - Love Is All Around The original song The Troggs - Love Is All Around

Thank you. :)

I agree with Kevin. Keep talking with your boyfriend. Since you don't want to preserve the current relationship talking is the only option you have.