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I met my guy's wife last week at their house. He had to come out to the car and get me. No way I could have walked in by myself. I was so nervous. I said I felt like I was on a job interview. But all was okay. She was so lovely. Just breathe, keep calm, and if all else fails, have a drink to...

Hi, Vexxed. How are you finding it? I am not only trying to work out the kinks of having a new boyfriend who isn't into communication (texts, emails or calls) but the whole poly thing, too.

They think it's normal. You guys are helping me a lot. Thanks. Mwah!

I am full of questions, since I am new. Am I right in assuming that as the girlfriend of a married man, it is totally normal to hang out with the boyfriend AND his wife? What I mean is, is it normal to go to their place and hang out, and totally normal if I stay the night? Lay it on me...

Thank you. I have been wrestling with myself for months about what I want, and this seems perfect.

What meant was, I don't want to live with someone full time. I have just come out of a 23-year marriage and need my space. I know I want polyamory. As the girlfriend of a married man, he will not be with me all the time, and I will get the freedom I need right now. But your comment made me...

I am the girlfriend of the married guy. I know this is right for me, but I am just trying to find my way in a world that everyone frowns upon. I so much want to be part of their lives-- his life, his wife's life, her boyfriend's life. But it's just so new to me. Am I thinking too much?

As I read the forums, I see that most of the people writing are a husband or wife. I am the girlfriend. I'm not sure of my place in this, especially since I am new to this and new to the relationship. My boyfriend keeps saying we will find our way, but it's still hard to figure out my place in...

Hi Sage. :)

Hi Fit....thanks :)

Thanks Red... I guess I have a lot to learn lol having said that during the weekend we have our own things to do within it, but I know what your saying.

I guess the marriage was over at that stage and I was jealous and I didnt want him seeing others.... Me seeing this guy isnt like having a full time boyfriend for me..after being alone a year I am not wanting someone in my bed 24/7.

Hi, just entered into this with a guy whos wife has a boyfriend so there are 4 of us in this!

Hi.. well.. ummm where to start. I was with my ex husband for 23 years and at the end of it, he wanted an open relationship. I just couldnt deal with it and it all went belly up. 14 months on from the separation I have met a guy who is married and in an open relationship.. and I want in. I...