Recent content by AllRightyThen

I’ve been a train wreck over this. I’ve checked into a hotel to take a break from her and am taking the week off from work to process my thoughts/feelings. It’s going to be a long week. Thanks to all for the advice/suggestions/sympathy. Really don’t know where to start. I bought a couple books...

I do not do anything of those things for restrictions. She has access to my phone and computer however I don’t to hers. Only rule I had for that 1st date was a meetup dinner to get a “feel” of the guy. We did not get that far for establishing that boundary or rule. I was not expecting such a big...

Turns out that she did not film it. She was downloading it off her e-mail from the guy she did it with to the DVD disc. She forgot about it.

Not really. Only thing different is the obvious “extra” time spent with her phone and laptop.

How are you doing the rules or boundaries to make sure your SO is not cheating or hiding anything in another relationship? I understand everything is about TRUST however it come across as impossible to believe. Phone calls, texting, messaging, dating sites, e-mails and meet ups are quite a few...