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To give you my background. I am Active USN 9 years in my gf is active USN 11 years in. If your partner or you are married and in the military you are guilty of adultery punishable under the UCMJ Article 134 General Misconduct, listed in paragraph 62 (stupid catch all). This is indisputable. Now...

The best I can do is offer my mono opinion. I struggle with the idea of poly at first, and I still have some reserve for it. Really at this point the only thing I am worried about is time management which seems to be one of the issues that is weighing on your mind. Yes you are mono, 6 years...

Maybe try setting aside time individually with your other partners for a date. Just something out of the house, quiet dinner and a walk or even some light jazz music that you can get close on the dance floor. I have never been in your exact situation but all relationships suffer from this. It is...

I guess if we consider sex as a hobby, count me in too. I had a nice quickie during a poker run the other day. We came back to my apt so I could change from my jacket to vest. It was getting hot outside and I don't like riding and being warm. I went to use the bathroom, when I came out she grab...

I am mono too (open to a poly relationship on my part if it presents itself). My gf (confirmed poly) and I have guidelines. One of which being, it is cheating if we go to bed for the first time with a new partner without letting the other one know it is going to happen beforehand. Not "Oh shit...

It is never easy making someone decide anything, but you will have your answer soon. I hope things work out for you.

do a google search for Hampton Roads Polyamory. They have meet ups all the time. You will find plenty of people that are like minded.

My gf used that when I first started dating her to explain it. I HATED hearing it. I started asking questions and it turned out that it was really different, he sees a side of her that I never see really. They have debates about random things, talk about psychology ....etc. It kind of made...

Keep it QUIET. I am in the navy and I am thinking about trying poly. I am in with a woman that is poly. She was in a triad. Of course they were in same command and got busted for something stupid. I am telling you now, they come down so quick on stupid shit like this. I have stood witness to...

Jealousy sucks and is hard to deal with. I have a hard time with it everytime my SO leaves the area for a dance event that I know her other guy will be at. I hate it, if I text her and she doesn't respond logically I should think she is dancing or sleeping which is almost always the case, but...

Bite the bullet and come straight out with it. No beating around the bush. Just be honest, calm and prepare for the fallout. Sorry there isn't anything better to tell you.

I know she has been hurt before, she was in a triad. It was horrible for her. I am the first person she is seriously seeing in 3 years. She is telling me these things because I push for her to talk about it. Otherwise she would bottle it up and deal with it. I think it is rough with the timing...

Bangel I hear what you are saying. Fellow mono here. I am not married and kind of ended up in this by pure happenstance. I went through the same issues. Analyze every thought and feeling. Really it will take time but in the long run it will help. Read Read Read and Talk Talk Talk. I lost my mind...

AHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!!! This killed me, sorry to jack the thread.

Hey guys, It has been a while since I posted on here. Things have been going great until recently. Let me say this is not to say they are going bad, but something new has come up and I find it interesting. Recently I have met one of my neighbors in the apartment complex, she came out to ask...