Recent content by AloneHere

Thank you to everyone. I will do some more reading and talking.

We had decided to start being more honest about what was going on about two weeks ago. The DADT arrangement wasn't working. It was logistically almost impossible due to our work schedule and also it was unpleasant for him to be lying me about what he was doing. Also I'm guessing that he had...

Thanks for the replies. I know I didn't do enough reading about polyamory before posting, so I plan to do that as we move forward. Part of the problem was that every article I *had* read seamed to take the loving multiple people aspect as a given. This didn't assist me in coming to terms with...

My husband and I have been married for over 10 years. He has always been open about wanting lots of sex and with many partners. We have tried various forms of open relationships, mostly involving casual threesomes in the past. For the last five years or so we have been having trouble being...