Recent content by Ana

This is a question, probably a stupid one, that relates to my own feelings. Although I have felt drawn to polyamory for most of my life, I find that I like to feel as though there is something that I share with individual partners that I do not share with anyone else, and vice versa, that there...

Thanks Redpepper, I will think seriously about what you have said. Minor corrections: 1. Abe's wife does know about our relationship. I don't fully understand what she knew and when she knew it, but Abe encouraged us to meet and talk earlier this year. I am afraid I totally messed up later on...

We put strict limits on the friendship. Abe is also married, and very much loves his wife. I was more open to sexual exploration and pushing the boundaries than he was. We had infrequent sexual encounters (0-6 a year), but lots of hugs and other forms of touching. I know what you mean about...

I have been in a traditional marriage, for more than 20 years, to a man I dearly love, Kane. We have discussed polyamory many times over the years, but he is not sympathetic towards it. I am ashamed to admit that I have not been faithful. What's more, I find I no longer desire Kane sexually. I...