Recent content by Anakalia

Hey all, I'm currently in a triad of 5 years and recently we've decided to open our relationship and see other people. We have 5 kids (4 are my bio kids, 1 is my partners') between the ages of 10-17, and they are very perceptive. :) They obviously know about the triad (we all live in the...

Hey all. I'm currently in a triad with 2 people that I love and adore. They are married and have been for a long time. I always thought that I would get married, but now it's looking like something that is an impossibility. My question is, does anyone else feel a desire to get/be married, and...

Thank you! :)

Exactly this. I'm fairly certain that I wouldn't be okay with it. Thanks. :)

We do currently live very close to one another, time together is not really an issue. And 2/3 of us are out to our parents, so that's also a non-issue. I guess it's the day to day life, the sharing of everything, and sharing of a home base we are looking for. Really, it's just in discussion...

I started dating my girlfriend first, and that was just over a year ago, and the triad started about 10 months ago.

Hey there! Anyone here in a triad and all live together? With kids? My partners and I all want to move in together with our children (ages 6, 8, 8, 11, and 13), and we're just trying to sort out the logistical side of things. Specifically, we're trying to figure out how we'll split bills...

Well, we don't live together, but plan on it. The main thing holding us back is my kiddies. I have 4, and only 1 is privy to the relationship. She thinks we're weird, although she loves both of them. We don't share anything legally like finances, health benefits, or anything. I am entirely...

Agreed, that's kinda the idea. Just trying to get to that completely secure place before even considering adding anything. I also tend to over-think and over-analyze everything, which is currently my biggest problem. Working on it though! Thanks! :)

We have talked about handfasting, so that may be an option in the future. :)

Thanks for your replies. We are closed because we are trying to take things slow and make sure we are solid as a unit before adding another relationship. What I didn't mention is that I have never really identified as poly, more of a serial monogamist to be honest... but have found myself in a...

Hello everyone, I am very new here, but I'm hoping to find some insight on poly dynamics and others who are in similar shoes as myself. I feel like this could be a novel, so I'll try to be brief. I am currently in a great triad and I love my partners like crazy. They are married and I...

Hello! I just found this forum and thought I'd jump in and say "HI!". I have never actually identified as "polyamorous", but have found myself in a poly relationship, so it is what it is I suppose. I would have considered myself a serial monogamist up until now actually. I am a thirty...