The reason why I haven't been back on this thread is because I have been trying to work some things out with him. I have been reading all of your comments and have been taking some things into consideration.
We ended up having a long talk about what happened and I AM completely at fault for...
To make this more of a shorter story I will keep it to the basic facts of this situation: I have been with my partner for almost 5 years now but have been swinging for almost 4. Just recently, we have been talking about separate adventures. He was going away for a few days and we both decided...