Recent content by anonymouslemon

Yeah 100% on both of your points-- I knew the living situation was stressful, but I didn't know it was the *reason* for them being this insecure. They've always been somewhat insecure in our relationship even before they moved in with me [though admittedly it wasn't this bad]. But before we...

Adding an update on things since a few of you have replied: I ended up confronting T about their insecurities, feeling that it would be best to bring it up so that we could pursue counseling together, and they shed some more light on the situation. I'm not really at liberty to explain every last...

You're right on that end; and I shouldn't be mean to myself. I've just faced a lot of backlash from people in my conservative southern community, especially for being in a relationship with someone who's married, and been called a lot of ugly names that I won't go into. It's been hard to ask for...

Thank you for replying to me; I appreciate an outsider's perspective and to be honest, being told I'm not the bad guy in this makes me want to cry tears of relief. I've spent a long time feeling like I was the absolute scum of the earth for doing what I did and feeling the way I feel, and you're...

Hi everyone, I mostly came here bc I've been searching for advice and have had no luck until I found this forum. Hopefully someone here can help me. I want to stay anonymous for now, so you can call me L. For the sake of brevity, I'm going to refer to my partner as T and their husband as N...