Recent content by APAcircleofthree

Thank you for your thoughts, WhatHappened. I'm glad you "got" it. I think I don't get it. I'm frustrated. My husband has been completely, brutally honest with me, since the day ( which was one month in to his EA) I found out. He has been open about everything, way too much sometimes, he...

Thank you for your response, Love2Bake! I love the thought of the introduction with my son. This is not a triad, it is a Vee. I was not forced into this. It was my choice, to enter this lifestyle change along with my husband. Of course, there are never guarantees with any relationship. I...

nycindie, my apologies... the shared custody model, not for our son, but for him. My thoughts and writing are all over the place. I think she doesn't want to meet me face to face before the ceremony because than she has to put a face with my name, and know that I am real, if that makes any...

Again, many thanks for your response. No, he is not the boss of me. I should say, that before I knew of what his vision was of what part she played in our life, I guess I was the one indirectly who threw a "wrench" (as he calls it) in this. It happended while we were on a family vacation...

Thank you so much for your response, nycindie! Our son is 15. Some of my concerns fall on deaf ears at time, as my husband says he needs to meet my metamour, in order for all of us to move forward. I have asked quite often for him to slow things down, again, the response is it needs to be right...

My back story is long, winded, actually, so I won't get into it unless I'm asked. I am very new to this. This new journey of life was started by an emotional affair 8 months ago. We made it this far, and I am pleased to say that. He only looked into this "way of life" because he was so...