Recent content by aqua

Thank you for your warm welcome and responses! I think I do need to have a conversation with my boyfriend about what exactly it is that he doesn't think he can have with me. He certainly knew I was married when we started dating, but while I don't think either of us were looking for "just" a...

Hi. Overwhelmed here and could use some advice. I'm a married female with a husband and a boyfriend (a V). We're all somewhat new to poly, especially my boyfriend. Things are great right now, but I know my boyfriend does not want to be a "secondary" forever. The thing is, I hate the idea of...