Recent content by arianne

Hahah I'm guilty of doing that all the time. I tend to sit on things for a long time, then decide one fine day that I'm going to do X and I go out and do it immediately. I don't want to say anything with so much certainty and I don't really want to influence D's decision of where she wants to go...

I haven't really wanted to because I understand why things are up in the air. D can't decide where she wants to go to school or when (the timeline keeps getting pushed back) and J intends to move with her. We're just at very different places. I'm fairly settled (career, home, etc) where D isn't...

^^ Yikes... maybe if you bought one of those huge farmhouses? :D You'd need one of those passenger vans to transport everyone anywhere! Or a school bus. The idea with this triad was that it would be equal/eventually be equal but I see equality (maybe I'm wrong here) as not being a possibility...

Backstory: I've been dating a couple for close to a year now. When we started dating J (him) and D (her) were living together and had been dating for close to 2 years. When we started dating, I had some jealousy issues, especially since I moved to a different city a couple of months after and...

I'm currently in a triad relationship, as the unicorn. It wasn't something I went searching for. I've known the couple I'm dating for over 3 years now. Maybe it wasn't a natural evolution from friendship, but the friendship helped us form a solid foundation. I guess I also don't fall into the...