Recent content by Arisu

Thanks to everyone here, I am feeling much more confident that all will be well! And to Marcus, that last line really made sense, thank you!

I make it a point to say, every time we have a big talk (which lately has been at least once or twice a day or more), that I want them to be happy and that I do not want to 'get in their way' or control their relationship. I hope that dissuades their fears that I don't want to do this, because I...

Thanks for your help! While S keeps telling me I need to try harder to control my emotions, I think I got through to R a bit. I said exactly how I felt... I feel like a bad guy now and they weren't happy, but at least now it's out there.

This, pretty much. R and I did discuss starting things with S a few months ago, but she became afraid and broke it off. I wrote her off completely until a week ago. I've told them they're moving much faster than I can adjust and being told that the problem lies with me is frustrating... I'm...

Sorry! I am female. I have tried giving them some specific needs and been shot down, which has been very frustrating. it's strange feeling like the odd one out after four years, but I'm sure I will find a way to figure it all out on my own...

Hi guys! I've been reading countless sites along with this forum and I'm in need of some advice. My girlfriend and I recently began a poly relationship with a friend of ours. The two of them sort of decided on this without me present, started their relationship in one night, and I consented the...