Recent content by Arnick

He's admitted to as much, but we're working on that - especially when jealousy might crop up on my end as well. Rather than date around at the moment, we're going to attempt opening ourselves sexually first. Initially together, but we're hoping we can do stuff casually/individually as well. I...

@Magdlyn We've done quite a bit of a reading, here and elsewhere, thanks. We literally spent months discussing things. That's how we came to those general guidelines, as we did realize that those guidelines can change & likely will, depending on who joins the group. As there is a group dynamic...

Update: I'm working on reestablishing my ideas. I don't think my friend will continue being interested in me; I think she might just be hesitant to say no for now. I'm hopeful I can mend our friendship, though. However, my bf and I talked last night and I decided to open up to him about other...

That's the thing, though. I'm still of mind with what we originally agreed to, whereas he is the one who wants an exclusively closed triad. We don't know what she wants, because she's still seeing if she's interested or not. I'm fine with them dating other people. I'm not looking at anyone else...

"She wanted me to accept it". I mean, you've kind of gone along with it all this time, so this may seem a silly question. But does it feel like she's forcing you, that your input doesn't matter? Because even outside a poly situation, I know far too many people who just kind of go with the flow...

My boyfriend and I have been together for years now. For context, we are both bisexual men. We've been monogamous for most of this time, closed sexually, so purely just us. One day, he asked me if I'd ever considered having a threesome, and I admitted to him that that was a very common fantasy...