Recent content by Ashley612

Not sure how to answer this without sounding defensive. The "change" was at first he was all crazy gangbusters and then it changed extremely in a short amount of time. I am not "clingy", but I am intense and passionate. Just don't like mixed signals. Quite frankly, some of the responses I've...

Thanks YouAreHere. Totally ok being alone. Just don't like wondering if I am being stringed along. Seems to be one of those says one thing and actions say another kinda things. Definitely on the menu to be talked about next time he has some free time.

Well, as far a time. I've just noticed a change in the frequency of texts and such. Plus, I am the one that seems to bring up getting back together. Have tons of friends and hobbies. It just kinda comes across that if he has nothing better to do then he has "time" to get together. Get that...

First off, will say that I am new to poly. Found a guy I am interested in, but the lack of time to see him is so hard. Feel like I am the one constantly finding time (or trying to find time) to get together, and it leaves me feeling kinda sad and lovesick. Feel like I really like this guy, but...

A fellow Twin cities peep. I love it. Yeah it's going to be an interesting journey. So far the problem I am having is finding men that realize the difference b/w sexual and sex obsessed. Not in any rush at all, but would like to meet more people that get what I mean lol.

kevin, thanks so much for the warm reply. Finding caring individuals like you has really been helpufl so far in the process. Growing up in a society of monogamy, it's hired to think things through other than how you are "told" to wire them. I tend to jump off the deep end, so the advice about...

Thanks for all the links. Off to read ;) Ash

Thanks Magdlyn, Thanks so much btw. I LOVE the line there's no lying in polyamory. I've already encountered individuals online that don't seem to understand the concept that polyamory doesn't mean trying to cheat on my husband. Can't wait to get to know everyone.

thanks That's why I don't want to just scrap the idea even before I've started. We have been fantastic at communicating so far including my feeling of these fears already. I've been a control freak my whole life, thanks to some stuff in my childhood. One thing that is common for me though is...

My husband and I just started talking about this. I'm the one that brought it up because quite frankly he's not meeting my sexual needs. I love him with all my heart, and he is my best friend. Other than our physical relationship our marriage couldn't be better. (and before it's mentioned I know...

I've been thinking about being open/poly for years, but just talked to hubby about it this weekend. We've been married for 6 years, together 7. Really not sure if this is for us or not, that's why I joined the forum. Looking to meet open minded people and get some useful tips on how to ease...