Recent content by AshRod55

I agree, there is nothing wrong with that. I think he has been dishonest because he knows i wouldnt be ok with the truth and he doesn't want to leave either. So he will just sit in this lying land until i decide to leave. Sucks. Either way im the bad guy. He gets angry when i say im not ok with...

Loved your response! You put it just just right, plain and simple!!! I really entered into our relationship hoping for a real poly relationship, looking forward to the experiences and growth that was possible as a couple! Im curious, would you tell the other womans husband? Ive struggled with...

Thank you for your response, definitely agree with the gaslighting reference, although i do not feel a victim to my situation because i suppose at this point he has shown me who he is so many times and i just keep looking past it, or hoping for different. Thats my own fault. Hes been...

I really appreciate your response! He's very good at making me feel like im crazy for being upset and that im "overthinking" and "that i agreed" to it. This is just the validation i needed.

Thank you for the kind words! It is very hard to love someone but also know they are not giving you what you need and considering your feelings. I appreciate your advice

Thank you for your opinion. Im not very experienced and needed some validation that what hes doing is wrong.

I really appreciate the advice, thank you for your honesty.

Evie, Thanks for the reply! My boyfriend of 4 years has been in the swinger lifestyle as a single male for about a decade now. He was open about this with me and i agreed it could continue if we were in a relationship, under the pretense that i would also be included. About 6 months in he...

Anyone will to discuss some OPP/relation issues with me. Im new to Poly and need some advice