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    Struggling with first poly dating experience

    Hi Kevin, That makes a lot of sense. I think that's what I'm going to try. My hope is that it'll be made easier by either one or both of them being the one to initiate it when it gets to that point (similar to how it was with P2 when we had sex), but if they don't, and if we get to a point...
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    Struggling with first poly dating experience

    Thanks. I don't think I'm too bad looking. lol I take after my mom who always looked really young for her age, so like I'm 31 bust most people think I'm in my early 20s. It has its pros and cons, though. I won't lie, I am a little bit worried about issues with things like couple privilege...
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    Struggling with first poly dating experience

    Talking more with P2, I expressed that that that's what I wanted, and his response was "Sorry everything has become so confusing. You didn't completely miss the mark (referring to an earlier message from me to him where I asked if I had maybe just read misread the situation). I get where you're...
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    Struggling with first poly dating experience

    Hi Kevin, Thanks for the advice. I'll try to avoid PDA, so that we don't have a repeat of what happened this weekend. When I kissed P2, I really didn't think it would be received the way that it was because it wasn't the first time we kissed (although it was the first non-sexual kissing), and...
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    Struggling with first poly dating experience

    Galagirl, thank you for your really comprehensive response, and sorry about the readability. I wrote it on my phone, and it looked like there was a space between each paragraph when I posted it, so I didn't realize it came out as a giant text block. I just fixed it from my computer, so it should...
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    Struggling with first poly dating experience

    Although I have had threesomes with friends of mine and their partners, I’ve never actually had a polyamorous relationship (they’ve always been strictly monogamous), so it’s been a little bit difficult for me to navigate a situation I am in, but most of the resources I can find are advice for...
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