Recent content by Attarax

Thank you both for your insights and opinions, I really do appreciate it. Yes, I think there may be that small part of me that is chomping at the bit for any reason to bolt...but that's how I've always been it seems. This time though, it feels like I'm on a perfectly functioning airplane but am...

...is there a like button on this forum? because I absolutely loved this. longest for me was about 5 ish years? Prior to that was a few, and this one just over one.... I, honestly don't know in terms of time how long I want this one to last...which is crazy since we share a house, finances, a...

THIS!!: I loved that. That is exactly where I fall in at...well..until I fall out of it, but it's the comfort and inertia thing that's really gotten me. Except the way I want to start the momentum push is to push SS out to find his own. But to continue with this thread, I've been in 3 MFM V...

I agree with Jayne. Social media has options for feed views for a reason. Passive Aggressiveness is something that touches a nerve with me for many reasons, but in a relationship sense is never good. I have always felt that any relationship should have clear honest lines of communication...no...

I haven't been back here in a while, life and work have a tendency to just up and go when I think it's "down time". I don't know really how to put this in words but I guess I should clarify the Sex Camel bit. You know how it's said that Camels can go for a long time without water...

Hi there Chris, And yes, that definitely sounds like a "V" to me as well, though I am in total agreement with nycindie about not being hung up on the labels. So far your grouping seems to be working out and as long as you all keep communication open and honest things will work out as they are...

(continued from above) My sons go to public school. They are not bullied. When they were younger, they were, but beyond one physical confrontation that my youngest had (he's actually the bigger of my two sons) nothing much else affects them. They are pretty mature for their ages though they are...

ISAbour apparatus Had to come back to the top and post a warning after typing the rest. This is ungodly long winded and I apologize in advance. Rambly and poorly written, but hopefully, even if you skim it, you'll see what I was trying to say. So...*wow need to shake the head a bit* I read...

Just posted in intro the bare essentials, I though posting a more fleshed out personal summary would be beneficial...I hope. So I'm here mostly because I have a want to learn more about poly. That when I found out there was a term for the situations I found myself in the relief that I felt was...

Okay, so the basics: Age: 34 Married for 14 years, together with my husband for 15 I'm bisexual, he is straight...though jokingly has his "would go gay for celebs list" We have 2 kids (13 and 12) Have gone through the gamut of swingers/open poly/ and finally settled on polyfidelity (I think?)...