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    Open to new connections who WANT children

    Open to new connections who WANT children
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    Best U.S. cities to be poly?

    What do you think are the most poly-friendly US cities and why? The greatest populations of poly people? Places where finding poly-people who also WANT children? States with laws that are poly-friendly (if any)? Best cities for single-poly ppl?
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    I'm not finding long-term partners, he is.

    A few clarification Wow! Thank you. Lots of good advice! A few clarifications: he isn't my husband, just a live-in-partner. Also, When I said 3-4 new partners sometimes, I should have emphasized the sometimes. At any given time he has about 3 partners and me, but they usually stay fairly...
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    Married, poly, and traveling.

    New too Welcome, I am new as here as well. Also a traveler (47 countries) and fighter against all that is 'normie'. Feel free to chat anytime. :)
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    I'm not finding long-term partners, he is.

    Breakneck pace By 'Breakneck pace' I mean that (on both sides) sometimes we introduce the possibility of 2-3 new potential partners a week. Or that sometimes we are dating over 4 other people. They don't ever seem to get too serious (in part probably because we have strong boundaries on time...
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    I'm not finding long-term partners, he is.

    Ghosters In the past 6 months I have voiced what I want out of relationship. And the effect was many men saying they were aligned...then still ghosting me.
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    I'm not finding long-term partners, he is.

    on 'avoiding sex' On Avoiding sex until people get attached: F* that. I get why playing 'the game' works. But I am not that girl. If I want a physical connection and we are both feeling it, I go for it. Sex isn't something I use to barter with or put on this pedestal like its holy. It's an...
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    I'm not finding long-term partners, he is.

    Yes, when I said "I can't ask him" I meant I HAVE asked, we have discussed. Everything I have written here I have said to him. And by can't ask I mean I agree with a point he made that he cares about his other partners and can't just start and stop with them based on how my mood about dating...
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    I'm not finding long-term partners, he is.

    So, I'm approaching my 3 year anniversary with my primary(male). We have been poly from the start and its a core tenant of our beliefs and our relationship. Most of the times things run pretty smoothly and internally we have very little conflict. However, almost all of his dates and partners...
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