Thank you for the response! Sorry I didn't see this sooner. Could you explain more about what you meant with the natural state of any relationship? On check ins, I would like to keep them informal as well but have them still be meaningful when they do occur.
Thank you for chatting!
Here to learn from others! I'm an ethically non-monogamous with one partner. Currently trying to create "check-in" moments periodically to create healthy boundaries with my partner. They lean more towards hierarchy while my preference would be kitchen table. Hope to chat more!