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its always been my opinion that jealousy is a natural human emotion and NO one is immune to it, but its best to be open and honest about your feelings. Jealousy is only ever a problem when its kept in the shadows and not fully explored. We found our "unicorn" Amanda after we'd really stopped...

Communication is definitely the key! I am the male half of a Female/Female/Male Triad and between us we have 4 kids. One thing that I've found to keep all our lives organized is a general communication white board for general family things they we keep a group text message channel open...

The whiteboard is for general communications (for who is in, who is out) Currently we have 2 kids living with us so that has all the chores posted, meetings, etc. Once we finish our battle with CPS (we are winning) Amanda's kids will be living here two which will mean 4 kids!

We use both a big whiteboard as well as we have a group text message open for all 3 of us, as well as 2 way chats with each of us

be sure to communicate your feelings. The one thing I've found about poly relationships is that they require 3x more communication than do regular. TALK about your feelings

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I'm wondering if anyone knows of a poly friendly lawyer who deals in family law? When we met our current partner, Amanda she had just been out of a relationship and had her kids taken away by CPS for issues with her divorce and having to live in her parents garage. Now we are trying to get...

Often I've seen people use one problem to cover up larger problems which is what this sounds like to me. I think that many times, as well, people just assume that being poly/swinging will help with problems, but if you go into it with unresolved problems and are unable to properly communicate...

I've been with people like that, who keep going back to their ex's and it never ends well. They have gotten themselves into a pattern as others have said in this thread. From the sounds of it you two could rescue her over and over, but she will still end up running back to the ex again and...

Its amazing how it just naturally comes together sometimes.

So, now that is cleared up..... I am the male partner in our triad. Known to my friends and some of my clients as "JD" or just "badfairy"