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Clarification - Bee said she wanted him home two nights a week at a minimum. He never spent more than one night a week at my place. The other two nights he was usually working late or at home any way. Sometimes I would visit at their place for a couple of hours. Weekends he would spend at home...

There's definitely been times when I've thought things would be so much simpler/happier if we were both single. There hasn't really been any of that now. I'm uncertain about our own relationship. I felt like I was just starting to figure out how all the pieces fit together, but now they're...

Update time. Jay and I were able to talk things out. Nothing dramatic, just voiced certain assumptions and re-set expectations. Funny how things are remarkable when they aren't working, but when they are suddenly it doesn't seem like a big deal anymore. Hardly worth talking about. We're still...

First off, thank you so much to everyone for the incredibly thoughtful responses. You've given me a lot to think about, and I still am working through it. I'm noticing concern for Bee's side in all this, which I mostly left out in my first post for the sake of brevity. I think some background...

I'm not sure where to start but I could use some help with my relationship. I met Jay about 21 months ago off a dating site and we started a relationship. At the time, we planned on things being casual - we'd meet up once a week for dinner and then have sex, and he'd stay the night. Lots of...