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Leave her

Thanks you guys. I have now made a well informed decision

There are several things that she does to show that she cares for me and we do spend quality time together talking about the other dynamics of life. She physically can't sleep without me. We are intimate and do have sex bit its not as intense or frequent as it used to be

She's very neutral

When she does tell me I'm actually very interested. I always express that I want her to enjoy herself and to make it home safely. I have even thanked her for being honest with me cause it's most important to me. I've never shown irritation for her going only when she attempts to hide it from...

I think she's more like he's too blinded by his love to see what I'm doing!

I do have actual physical proof that she is sleeping with these men. Our rough patch was over and I believed we were in a good place before we decided to be poly. Then I found out she was seeing these men without informing me and our number one rule was to.be honest no matter what.

We are both outgoing people. I know exactly in what fashion the situation bugs me. Its due to the fact that when I ask my wife if she's seeing other people she lies and says she's not. Even though Shea been seen with and.I've heard her setting up secret rendezvous with these men. I've confronted...

I can totally relate. I'm the hubby in my situation with no partners other than my wife while she has multiple. My friends think I'm just being used but I truly don't believe I am

Ok here's my Dilemma, I'm very new in the poly lifestyle after a rough patch and some semi honest talking with my wife we decided to try this life. (I'll come back to why it's semi honest later). She has had no problem reconnecting with ex lovers and meeting new ones to explore and express...

I can sympathize with this situation. My wife is living her own secret life with multiple lovers and thinks I don't know but when the lack of intimacy is brought up she flies off the handle as if I'm asking for too much. My only advice is to find your own peace of mind.

We have been talking and she's starting to open up more to me. I thank you for your wisdom and advice

We dated for 2 years before getting married

Yea I dabbled a bit when I was 19 bit just thought it was odd that I could watch my ex build a relationship with another man and not feel jealous. I've since grown up to understand my feelings

Oh I stated it incorrectly. I meant her view is different on what it means to be open. We have been married just over a year and it's both of our first marriage and open relationship. I think she's actively seeking just not informing me that she is. Which you are correct in saying its a major...