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    How do I tell my husband?

    truth is, I didn't talk to him cause I also never felt safe to do it. And that tells me a lot about the type of relationship I am in. That I don't feel safe enough to talk things with the one person I should be able to trust? that speaks miles about our problems, to begin with.
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    How do I tell my husband?

    Thank you. I realize that, even if i don't necessarily agree, a lot of people would consider that cheating. So I will keep it in mind.
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    How do I tell my husband?

    I do resonate a lot with what you said. Specially cause he always felt very threatened by my male friends but not women, even though he knows that ocasionally I like women too. And I always thought that talked miles about his issues and insecurities. I don't think im being spied on or anything...
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    How do I tell my husband?

    I think it is both. The crush was an eye opener to my marital problems. But it is also not a passing fancy, believe me. I've been struggling with my feelings for this person for quite a long time. I've been in hard core denial, telling myself he was just a friend, for years now. I don't want to...
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    How do I tell my husband?

    I am loving them in their own ways. The arguing comes from my husband feeling jealous because he believes I'm too close to my friend. Which is true, because he is a lot more than just a friend. I haven't taken any actions towards being with him because I don't want to cheat. I've talked to my...
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    How do I tell my husband?

    Thank you so very much for replying. I definitely want to act on my desires. I haven't done it yet because I don't want to cheat. But I also want to make sure it is all worth it before dropping the bomb. Thank you for all the questions you asked, I realized I hadn't thought about some...
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    How do I tell my husband?

    Hi everyone. I've been in a mono relationship for almost ten years, and married for half of those. Recently, I came to the conclusion that i have a strong connection to a friend who i have also known for a very long time. After some arguments and jealousy from my husband, I realized i didn't...
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