Recent content by barry158

I now have a profile and am a paying member!

I think they were comparing it to Fab Swingers, which has so many people on it - it was the primary place my ex partner would meet men. It is a lot more vanilla than Fet! I have signed up to Fet. It does look a bit out of my comfort zone though!

Ah, I know this website. I know a couple (M,F) I used to see who were on it. They said it's good but not big in the UK yet. Most people here use Fab Swingers.

Hey, Tinwen. I would keep the door open. I would only be interested in details if my partner wanted to tell me. I'd never expect it.

Thanks for your reply. My previous relationship ended for unrelated reasons. My ex partner used to have sex with strangers very often. I am single, but looking for a relationship with a woman who is poly. I haven't met anyone and haven't tried yet. My concern is this is a kink for me. The idea...

Many thanks.

Thanks for your response. I am separated, but I want to find a partner who is poly whilst I am monogamous, not change an existing dynamic to poly. Many thanks

Lol - I am not very good at drawing, so they'd be surrealist masterpieces l!

It's easier than drawing the ideal scenario!

I just looked up garden party poly! I need to study the terms.

I think that sounds pretty accurate. But I do like the idea of her primary residence being with me, but she sees her other partners whenever she wants. With my.ex wife, as soon as a guy had sex with her, she would leave (or they would). She had no interest in intimacy with them. It's risky...

Thanks so much. Expertly put. My ex-wife and I were swingers. No emotional attachment at all. The ratio was massively tilted to men, so she obviously had more sex. She would get jealous when I was with women because it would be more intimate. I stopped doing it, although I am ashamed to say I...

I am now single, and I am looking for the following dynamic. My female partner is poly. I am monogamous. The problem for me is, why do I like that set up? I can only assume it is sexual, whereas poly relationships aren't purely sexual. Should I pursue this even though the basis for me liking...

Hi all. I am new here. After separating from in a long term relationship, I would like to explore a mono poly relationship (where my partner is poly and I am not). I am from, and live, in London.