Recent content by basilisc

Nope, I meant rules. I was referring to the rules my wife and I have established to make sure we don't do anything dangerous or hurtful. Things like always wearing a condom, texting each other where we're going to be (particularly for first dates) and such. We're not controlling "someone...

My wife and I are new-ish to our open/poly status, though we're quite cognizant of our desires and goals and have been careful about creating clear expectations for ourselves to avoid pitfalls. As I become gradually more active in the local community however I've begun to realize that our rules...

I almost never introduce myself on forums (I'm not sure why) but I feel like this is the sort of place I'd like to do that. My name is Kevin and I live in Lansing, MI. My wife and I have been open/poly for about three months, but we both knew this was the direction we wanted to head and it...