Recent content by Bembem

Thank you for your reply. We still have to do more talking for sure. He did apoligize about some things, but i don't think we already identified all problems made. Which i believe is pretty important to do to prevent this from happening again. He is still figuring out how to be more clear...

I agree on some things, ofcourse you have to judge on part of the information, since it is almost impossible to get all the info. I do know that my boyfriend doesn't want to be in a situation where he is hurting two people. He is hoping to be able to continue it as a friendship. However he...

I understand you, however we are in an open relation not poly. We agreed om having a relation where we could have fwb on the side. Not on a poly relation and after talking we are both usre that we don't want to go into that direction. Probably things between red and my bf are going to end...

Well at least i have a bit more clearity at this moment. My bf agreed dat he only wants friends with benefits on the side. Where i was afraid he was right that i filled in the blank spots myself it turns out that i was afraid with a good reason. My bf did tell red that it would never turn...

Thank you for all te reactions. Since my healt has been decreased rapidly i don't feel good enough to reply on every single part. However, untill so far all the reactions how been helpfull. Especially the long post from i think galagirl was very interesting and eye opening. I think the...

Thank you for your explanation. I think you named several of my fears indeed. Allthough we do agree that we might go back to a closed relation later on. I think at the moment he is still in a position where he needs the open relation. Only doubt is we might be in the open relation for the wrong...

Hello, thank you for your reply. I think i am having a problem with this girl because she did tell my bf that she wants more contact between them. She knows about the fact that we have issues about this at the moment and told him that she think it is not ethical to hope that we break up. and...

Hello everyone, i am new to this forum, i did read some other threads first to see if i could get some usefull advice from answers there, but obviously every situation is different. I will try to give enough details so i can hoply get some fair and honoust advice from more experienced people...