Recent content by berlinthomas

Update: Help me I am in hell My partner and I have had a handful of extremely sad and emotionally draining phone calls a few times this week. Saturday night she stated "I am sick to my stomach with guilt. I feel like no matter what I do, myself and someone else is going to get hurt." Last...

hahaha this actually cracked me up, because this whole situation was the first instance where I looked myself in the mirror and was like "oh my god... I'm dating a 22 year old..." In many other ways she is very mature and independent beyond her years. She has her shit together in life light...

Sequence of events: -Guy posts picture -partner confronts him -Guy insists he's just trying to be funny and put it on Instagram thinking I wouldn't see it (his Insta username is different from his twitter but I figured it out) -I see picture and confront my partner -Partner didn't confront him a...

Dangit I think I just lost the entire reply I wrote to GalaGirl let me start over :/

she told me she confronted him prior to me finding out about the post and his response was its just a joke and that he posted it on Instagram (not knowing I knew his Instagram) so that I wouldn't find out. later that day I confronted her. in other words what I'm saying is, she isn't going to...

Yes I realize that now, I've been reading other posts on this forum EDIT--and learning a lot that I didn't understand before especially with terminology--EDIT. What I want now is and open relationship, in the future I would like to be poly when I have more experience and feel more comfortable.

Thanks everyone for the replies. before I respond individually I'll clear up some concerns. I'll also give you some updates on the situation too. Had a really nice constructive non judgmental conversation with my partner. (When I typed my above post yesterday it was very stream of...

Greetings, Disclaimer: This is a LOOOONG post. I don’t mean to be annoying but typing this was very theraputic. I’m here looking for a little bit of guidance and mentorship from experience poly ppl. Might help to know that I have a history of depression/anxiety Please feel free to pm or...