Recent content by Bernadette Bosky

I'm not 100% sure what I Googled: polyamory + something. "polyamory groups"? "polyamory discussions"? It was on the first page but not the first few entries. For a while, I dated someone who cannot be out as polyamorous because he holds an elective office--local, in a liberal area, but...

As far as #5, some people feel better knowing the metamour & some feel worse. I'm in the former category: what my mind can come up with to torture me is much worse than the reality, which always comes as a relief. But some people look for every tiny thing that is "better" about the metamour &...

To me, there no is conflict between being in a "partnership" & what you say you want; in fact, I feel that the definition of a good relationship is that it lifts me up instead of tearing me down & my partner/s feel/s the same. Many people in an established partnership get complacent, but I...

Hello! I have been active on Facebook polyamory groups & am looking for more places for discussion. I am the sexual hinge of a MFM V-triad. That's the only term to describe us: sexually we are a V, but in every other way we are a triad. Kevin & Arthur each say that they have come to love each...

I am the F in a MFM V-triad, & in some ways your situation reminds me of mine. My Kevin is 58, I am 66, and my Arthur is 81. Fortunately, his mind is still very sharp--my mother had senile dementia for about 15 years, & I send you my sympathies. Kevin & Arthur call each other co-husband or "her...