Recent content by bewildered

Also, I just want to apologize is my reply is somewhat scattered - I'm on the road and writing from my phone.

Galagirl, I especially wanted to thank you for your thoughtful reflection. I am definitely aiming to both support my partner lovingly, not add to their despair or incriminations, and share my observations. I am focusing on caring for her and supporting her wellbeing in my observations, and I'll...

I just wanted to write to say how appreciative I am of the advice, questions, and empathy you all have expressed. It's been very helpful for me in seeking a clearer path through this. I take your words to heart, and I'm definitely seeking professional support. And definitely treading carefully...

I've been in a long-term relationship with my partner for upwards of ten years. We were mono for half that time, and then we decided together to embrace our poly selves and went that way. Since that time, we've each gotten very close with another lover. And though that partner and I have been...