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Hey Master Shake! I'm here for almost the same reason. I can't talk to my friends about my relationship because they simply don't get it. Thank god for the internet. haha :)

Wow...this all sounds so wonderul! I hope that I can create that kind of love and fullness in my life. :)

Thank you guys so much! I'm finding it really helpful to have people to talk to who understand that life and relationships are not black and white. For a long time I've tried to talk about my feelings involving my romantic relationships with my friends and I'm finding out that they just don't...

Thanks for your input LovingRadiance. I would NEVER demand that he be in a monogamous relationship with me. Because ultimately all I want for him is to be happy and fulfilled...even if that means being with someone else. And I can see how my insecurities around this are ultimatly my own issues...

We have talked about it a few times. He says that he understands and that my feelings are valid. But even though we talk about it I tend to feel the same. I don't always want to express all the stuff I'm going through to him because it makes me feel so vulnerable. Its like I can't allow myself...

Well thank you so much for your insight. I tend to go back and forth between being ok with this and hating it. It doesn't help that when I talk about the relationship to others they don't get it. Right now I'm just really struggling with being insecure and feeling like I'm obviously not enough...

So I'm hoping that someone on here can shed some light on my situation. There is a man I've been involved with romantically for 2 and a half years now. I don't think he defines himself as being poly but he is definately not into monogamy. The whole time we have been "dating" we have both been...