Recent content by Bibliophile

Regarding the poly dating bit, I can understand how it might be difficult to find someone compatible, but it's not an insurmountable problem. After all, I'm poly, bi, I have children, and I used to date an Aspie. That both he and I were highly geared towards precision in our communication was...

Thank you, everyone, for the replies. That's what I'm trying to do, to give her time to process everything. I think when she feels a little more solid with things and knows that I'm not going to try and either take her from D or take D from her, she'll relax a bit. She and I had a really...

I'm not sure if this should go here or in the general discussion area. Mods, no worries if you need to move it. :) Well, as I said in my introductory post, I've lately started an involvement with a couple. Over the last few weeks, we've been spending more and more time together, but we've only...

I'll chime in and say you might want to at least wait a while and let your relationship settle a bit. In my situation, I can't really talk about my own triad, either: the area of the country we live in is very ... erm.. traditional, and wouldn't look at it favorably. Rather than feeling it's...

Thanks for the welcome, and you're right, Brunette. There's a lot of information here; I may be going into data overload, lol. But it's good. :)

When I was younger, I didn't realize there was such a thing as polyamory. I just knew that even when I was in a relationship with one person, I'd often find myself developing deep feelings for another person as well. Then would come the guilt, feeling as if I had done something wrong, and...