Recent content by BillFriend

In this day, I wonder if it is a reasonable motivation to seek out polyamory, because no couple can be all things to each other, regardless of what the old love stories say. Perhaps in my case, hopeful that if there were 2 or more ladies, they couldn't ALL be mad at me at once - lol

Dating site!?! I guess this might work for casual contacts, but less effectively for building an everyday relationship, except for the vast spectrum of the forum participants, which seems to be across north America. from the Posters comments. it seems most poly relationships start when one...

In reference to very close i.e. live-in relationships, I wonder if the larger the group the harder it would be, not to inadvertantly hert someone. I'm sure everyone needs to be really open about their feelings.

I expect you have hit the nail on the head - if it feels good emotionally, all three have to really work at the give & take & not screwing it up. It appears the early fundamental Mormons etc. may have had it working in a hard pioneer time. However, not like these modern day cult-creep welfare...

7th Crow - I haven't actually had the poly experience, just one circumstance that really made me think of the possibility because both ladies were so great. Mellissey - I always did understand that it was more mental than physical - actually I think most good relationships become that, after the...

OK got you. Sorry.

Sansi; Looks like you are just out of this in time. As a neophite at this & man, my 2 cents worth: I expect the poly relationship has to go slow, at first, perhaps without sex & work toward all three enjoying each other's company & caring about each other equally first. If the caring is really...

Women's Perspective - Questions Hi Mellesy; I 2 am new at this, early 50s Guy, old fashioned, long separated, straight, very gay tolerant (my best friend is Gay guy in 20 yr monog. relationship), did research - found out there even is such a thing as Poly. My questions from women's perspective...